In this day and age, people rely too much on Political Correctness to protect their feelings. It hurts because you let it.Matty Boom wrote:just becuase someone is proud to be gay they won't care about being called a fag...or a black person wouldn't care that they are called a nigger?
the reason there's problems with it is because it's derogatory
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its only derogatory or offensive if you let it offend you, theyre just wordsMatty Boom wrote:just becuase someone is proud to be gay they won't care about being called a fag...or a black person wouldn't care that they are called a nigger?
the reason there's problems with it is because it's derogatory
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but if you know it offends some people...why say it?
why not make that little effort to not say it
why not make that little effort to not say it
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no, i'm notmdel21 wrote:Matty, are you gay too.
i'm just trying to respect peoples' feelings
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because its just a freakin word, if we went out of our way to please everyone, we wouldnt have time to breathe, people need to just lighten up, or toughen up, depending on how you look at it.Matty Boom wrote:but if you know it offends some people...why say it?
why not make that little effort to not say it
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well, i'm done with this, i've exhausted every point i could make
i respect all of you guys even though i don't agree with most of you on this
snyder and a few other people definitely made me think about my stance and i hope that i made you guys think as well
now let's leave this thread for a newb to bring back to life and we'll fight it out again then
i respect all of you guys even though i don't agree with most of you on this
snyder and a few other people definitely made me think about my stance and i hope that i made you guys think as well
now let's leave this thread for a newb to bring back to life and we'll fight it out again then
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good pointjsgksu wrote:because its just a freakin word, if we went out of our way to please everyone, we wouldnt have time to breathe, people need to just lighten up, or toughen up, depending on how you look at it.Matty Boom wrote:but if you know it offends some people...why say it?
why not make that little effort to not say it
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i agree....if someone says something like that, i think it's probably more counter-productive to call them on it especially if they are not aiming it at anyone in particular...trying to 'police' the english language/lingo on a message board is not an easy venture and single someone out for something as trivial as was in this post, to me, is just someone that is bored and has nothing else to do....i can see if it was a pattern with the same person constantly using offensive language demeaning someone in particular, but i agree with Winglet, no one here has any intentions of insulting another...my opinion anywaywinglet82 wrote:I think that's really the important part. If people were intentionally saying it to insult homosexuals, it's one thing, but I seriously doubt that's what anyone's intention is around here.mdel21 wrote:I'm not trying to hurt your feelings. If someone is calling something gay, they are not talking about you or any other homosexual. They are using the word in a different context. I could see if someone said, "hey Ranting quit being gay," but they aren't. I'm sorry you find it offensive but no one is saying it with the intention of offending you. Like it was stated before, it's part of the English venacular and people using when they don't like something. Like saying something is Jewish. I wouldn't purposely try to offend you or anyone else but it's just something people say.
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